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					<br /><span class="subtitle2"><a href="/blog/12-8-2009/Hello-and-Welcome-to-My-Virtual-Shrink-from-Roger-Gould-MD.asp" class="subtitle2" onclick="cleanexit=true;">Hello and Welcome to My Virtual Shrink from Roger Gould, M.D</a></span>
					
						<br /><div style="float: left; padding: 0px 0px 0px 0px;"><table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"><tr><td class="pic_top-left"></td><td class="pic_top"></td><td class="pic_top-right"></td></tr><tr><td class="pic_left"></td><td class="pic_mid"><img src=http://cdn.myvirtualshrink.com/images/blog/welcome-gould.jpg width=144 height=223></td><td class="pic_right"></td></tr><tr><td class="pic_bot-left"></td><td class="pic_bot"></td><td class="pic_bot-right"></td></tr></table></div>Hello and welcome to <i>My Virtual Shrink</i>. We're very glad that you're here. <br /><br /><i>My Virtual Shrink</i> isn't just another blog nor is it just another "self-help" program. We're not peddling gimmicks, catch phrases or secret steps to success. There's no secret to making changes in your life and relationships, solving problems and achieving goals.<br /><br />Insight + Action = Change. Insight without action is meaningless and action without insight is chaos. That's basically all there is to it. It's that easy and that difficult. <br /><br /><a href="/blog/12-8-2009/Hello-and-Welcome-to-My-Virtual-Shrink-from-Roger-Gould-MD.asp" class="font_link" onclick="cleanexit=true;">Continue reading...</a></span><br /><br />
					
						Posted at 7:49&nbsp;AM,&nbsp;December 08, 2009&nbsp;by&nbsp;Roger Gould, M.D.&nbsp;|&nbsp;Category:&nbsp;<a href="blog.asp?v=c&2=Miscellaneous" class="font_link" onclick="cleanexit = true;">Miscellaneous</a>&nbsp;|&nbsp;<a href="/blog/2-8-2010/Healthy-SelfLove-The-Foundation-of-Good-Relationships.asp" class="font_link" onclick="cleanexit = true;">1&nbsp;Comment</a><br /><br />
					
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						<span class="subtitle2"><a href="/blog/2-8-2010/Healthy-SelfLove-The-Foundation-of-Good-Relationships.asp" class="subtitle2" onclick="cleanexit= rue;">Healthy Self-Love: The Foundation of Good Relationships</a><br /></span>
						<div style="float: right; padding: 0px 0px 0px 0px;"><table border="0" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0"><tr><td class="pic_top-left"></td><td class="pic_top"></td><td class="pic_top-right"></td></tr><tr><td class="pic_left"></td><td class="pic_mid"><img src=http://cdn.myvirtualshrink.com/images/blog/self-love.jpg width=184 height=291></td><td class="pic_right"></td></tr><tr><td class="pic_bot-left"></td><td class="pic_bot"></td><td class="pic_bot-right"></td></tr></table></div><i>"You can't love anyone else until you love yourself. . ."</i> Everyone knows this platitude. Accepting and loving yourself is a precondition to being in a healthy, reciprocal relationship. However, the oft-recited advice has it backwards: Before you can let yourself receive love from another, you must first accept and love yourself. If you're not capable of receiving love, you will attract and be attracted to others who will give you anything <i>but</i> love.<br /><br /><br /><a href="/blog/2-8-2010/Healthy-SelfLove-The-Foundation-of-Good-Relationships.asp" class="font_link" onclick="cleanexit=true;">Continue reading...</a></span><br /><br />
						
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